One of the most common concerns I hear from parents during the summer has nothing to do with outfits or locations. It’s the session time. When I tell a family that we’ll be photographing later in the evening, I can almost hear the wheels turning. Bedtime is at 7:30. Someone gets cranky by 8:00. We have worked so hard to get everyone on a schedule. Is this going to be a complete disaster?
I completely understand the concern. If you have little ones, bedtime can feel sacred, especially when you’ve finally reached a point where your evenings have some predictability. The idea of getting everyone dressed and heading out for photos at the same time you would normally be starting baths and pajamas can sound like a lot. But summer light works differently, and those later session times give us the soft, beautiful light that makes summer photos so pretty.
The good news is that children often do much better than their parents expect. A photo session is very different from asking a tired child to sit quietly through dinner or run errands late in the evening. We are outside, moving around, exploring, playing, and changing things up throughout the session. I keep things moving based on the children in front of me, because every family has a different rhythm.
I also don’t expect young children to suddenly become perfect little models because a camera is nearby. They can move. They can take a minute with Mom or Dad. We can play a game, walk together, or switch gears if something isn’t working. Some of the sweetest photographs happen during those in-between moments when a child needs to be held for a minute or wants to stay close to a parent.
If you’re worried about a later session, there are a few things that can help. Keep the day fairly normal, make sure everyone has eaten, and avoid packing the hours before your session with too many activities. For younger children who still nap, protecting that nap can make a big difference. You know your child best, so if there is something that reliably helps them reset or feel comfortable, bring it along.
I’ve photographed plenty of Fort Worth families who arrived wondering how their children would handle a summer evening session, only to be surprised by how smoothly it went. Children are often excited simply because we are doing something different. They have their parents’ attention, they are outside, and there is room to move around and have fun together.
Will bedtime be a little later that night? Probably. You might drive home with a sleepy child in the backseat, and the usual evening routine may look a little different. But one later summer night is usually much easier than parents imagine it will be, especially when the session itself is planned with young children in mind.
So if you’ve been putting off summer family photos because sunset feels impossibly close to bedtime, don’t count yourself out just yet. We can plan around your family, talk through any concerns ahead of time, and choose a session that gives us beautiful summer light while still keeping your children’s needs in mind. If you’re ready to update your family photos in the Fort Worth area this summer, I’d love to help you plan it.
Paula Goforth is a Fort Worth-based photographer specializing in family, newborn, and maternity portraits. Serving Fort Worth, Keller, Southlake, Dallas, and surrounding areas, she creates timeless, heartfelt images that beautifully capture life’s most precious moments.
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